9 Fantastic Large Family Mothering Ideas You Need In Your Life

9 Fantastic Large Family Mothering Ideas You Need In Your Life

Back when I only had two babies (16 months apart), I was just winging it.  At that stage, aren’t we all?  I mean, you have a baby, the nurses help you out for a couple of days, and then they send you home without any grown ups to make sure you’re doing it right.

If you’re lucky, you have family members to lean on.  (Or call every 20 minutes to ask what you should do next.  Not that I’d do anything like that.)

Slowly time goes by.  Eventually you’re able to get longer stretches of sleep.  You might have more babies.  And after a while, something clicks.  You learn to let go of unimportant things, and cling tightly to ideas that are proven winners.

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Our Happy Big Family Story (Yes, We Know What Causes That)

Our Happy Big Family Story (Yes, We Know What Causes That)

My sophomore year, I walked into my English class, plopped my books on a desk, and took a seat.  I was feeling more confident than I had as a scared freshman, so my first day of school was already off to a better start.

I was wearing my “no strike” t-shirt to display my annoyance at the Major League Baseball strike happening at the time.  When I looked over, I noticed the guy sitting next to me wearing a similar shirt.  Obviously, I had to strike up a conversation.

I thought he was a cool guy.  Clearly he had good taste if he loved the best sport ever created as much as I did.  He liked the fact that I could quote baseball stats like any guy in the class.

Little did I know, that friendship would later develop into a relationship.  That would eventually lead to a marriage and five kids.  And it began our big family story.

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Dreaming of A Remarkable Large Family Home That Holds It All

Dreaming of A Remarkable Large Family Home That Holds It All

As a Mom of 5 kids, I know how to pinch a penny.  We have a smaller home (with just one bathroom), which in some ways is really nice.  Less to clean and keep up with.  And best of all, we don’t find ourselves house poor.  (Who wants to send all their hard earned money to the mortgage company?)

All of that might be true, but you can bet that I still dream about what it would be like to have a spacious large family home.  And Mama, you sometimes dream about those things, too!

Today let’s explore what some large family homes and put some new ideas into our dream files.  And who knows?  Some of these pictures might even inspire ideas that you can use today.

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How Many Kids Do You Need to Reach the Large Family Definition?

How Many Kids Do You Need to Reach the Large Family Definition?

What’s the magic number of kids a family needs to meet the large family definition?  When people make comments about you having your hands full?  (Or remarks too rude to put into print?)

Is it when your grocery bill doubles, or when you have to buy a bigger car?  Maybe when networks contact you with a pitch for a reality tv show?

There’s no definitive answer to what number of children makes a family reach “large family status”.  But that doesn’t stop people from making an educated guess.

Let’s look at some stats, some facts, and some real world experiences of large families.

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How to Organize a Large Family in a Small House

How to Organize a Large Family in a Small House

Bang, bang, bang.  “Hurry up!!  I’ve got to go!”

That’s the sound of life all day long when you’ve got a family of 7 living in a house with one bathroom.  No matter how many times I remind the kids to not wait until the last possible minute to use the bathroom, it falls on deaf ears.  There’s a line for that bathroom so often it’s like being at a rock concert.

I always loved the song “Love Grows Best in Little Houses” by Doug Stone.  But when you’re living it day in and day out, life starts to seem a little less romantic than that song suggests.

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6 Reasons You Should Not Have a Big Family

6 Reasons You Should Not Have a Big Family

Since we already talked about 10 Reasons to Have a Big Family, today we are going to talk about reasons you should NOT have a big family.  I’ve heard them all!

Please keep in mind that this is a rather tongue in cheek style post.  I realize that big family life is not for everyone, and each family must decide what is best for them.  But… when you have a large family, you hear these comments rather often.  Amirite?

Reasons You Should Not Have a Big Family from Medium Sized Family http://wp.me/p6sbns-bX

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