3 Ways My Ugly Pink Shoes Changed How I Think About Money

3 Ways My Ugly Pink Shoes Changed How I Think About Money

Inside: Learn why I wear these shoes whenever I can…even though I’m not a fan of this style of shoes and I HATE pink!

We were at our county fair, stinky and sweaty after a long week of showing animals and enjoying 4-H activities.  It was the last day, which is always hard.  Some of our animals would go home with us.  Others would be sold at auction.

Even though my son wasn’t particularly fond of this set of lambs (they’d given him a lot of trouble!), he was having a hard time sending them on.  He’s old enough to understand the food chain.  And while our whole job was to pass a good product on to the consumer, selling animals is tough.

And even though I’m a no mom, and even though I know he needed to work through the process, I couldn’t say no when he asked if we could bring a bunny home.  So after working out a deal with a 4-H rabbit shower, we needed a cage.  That meant a quick trip in the pick up truck to Tractor Supply Company.

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12 Homemaking Blogs That Will Help You Get It Together

12 Homemaking Blogs That Will Help You Get It Together

Inside: Do you feel like a scatterbrained homemaker? Choose the homemaking blog from this list that’s the best match for you. You’ll love their tips!

When I first became a stay at home mom, I floundered.  To be fair, I gave birth to our third son the same month I quit my job.  And adjusting to a newborn takes time no matter how many kids you have.

Still.  It was nice to not have to rush the kids to the sitter and have myself ready for work every day.  But going from a rigid schedule to no schedule was tough.

After a period of not accomplishing much, I finally began searching the internet for homemaking blogs.  I needed ideas to get myself out of the rut and help me make a plan for getting things done.  And the little tips for simplifying life along the way sure didn’t hurt!

The first website I came across was Flylady.  It changed my life!  With her baby steps, I was able to create a plan for cleaning the house and organizing our busy lives.  Over time, I tweaked these ideas until they fit our unique situations.  There is no one size fits all solution, right?

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5 Ways We’ve Saved Money This Week 74

5 Ways We’ve Saved Money This Week 74

When baseball season begins, we are a busy family!  Four of our children play ball.  My husband is not only the coach for one of those teams, but he likes to help with another.  And he’s the representative for all of the baseball teams in our town.  Which is added work.

I’m not complaining.  We adore baseball, and we wouldn’t devote so much time to it if it wasn’t a lot of fun and a super learning experience for our children.  But it does make things like grocery shopping a bigger chore than usual.

I gave up taking kids to the grocery store when my daughter (18 months old at the time) started opening every package and actually ate a stick of butter.  Yep.  Aside from the gross out factor, I was a little worried about her health.  But I guess it’s kind of like me serving a Paula Deen recipe at home…

At any rate, I prefer to take an evening every 2 weeks or so and make my trip.  This week I decided that it was too much to add to our schedule, so I treated myself to a Clicklist order.  You can read my review of Kroger Clicklist (other grocery store car delivery services are probably similar).  My opinion is that not picking up impulse buys with my order equals the savings I might have found in hidden in store deals.  So it evens out.

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Help! I Can’t Save Money–I Have An Emergency Every Time

Help! I Can’t Save Money–I Have An Emergency Every Time

Inside: Stop that inner dialogue that says “I can’t save money!” With a few tweaks, you’ll find it much easier to become a saver, even if you’ve never been one!

I remember the day my 2 year old broke his arm.  It was the worst feeling in the world knowing that your baby was hurt and there was nothing you could do about it.  Thank the Lord for good hospitals full of people who can help!

The doctors and nurses got to work on him right away.  It was a very obvious break…a sickening extra bend in a tiny arm where no bend should ever be.  I still feel gross thinking about it.  While we were there, the doctor who told me that he’s probably see me again soon with 3 boys in the house.  Yeah, I kind of wanted to punch him just a little bit.

But he was right, of course.  Life with young kids brings along trips to the emergency room.  Unless you keep them in a bubble, there are always plenty of bumps, bruises, and (in our case) asthma attacks.

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16 Bright Verses for Mothers Day Cards That Will Make Her Smile

16 Bright Verses for Mothers Day Cards That Will Make Her Smile

Inside:  Add your own special touch to show love for your Mama with these verses for Mothers Day cards! Loving, funny, poetry…it’s all here!

When I was in second grade, my Sunday school teacher gave each child in her class a one dollar bill.  She told us that we should use that money to go to the grocery store and choose some food for the poor.  It was a lesson in helping others.

When I got home, I told my Mom about the assignment.  After that, she was on a mission!  By the time we got done shopping, I had a paper bag half filled with groceries for the price of a dollar.

Granted, this was the ’80s, so my dollar stretched further than it would today.  But the truth is that my Mom knew how to pinch a penny.  She’s one of the most frugal people I know.  This woman raised five kids on what would be considered a meager income…but we never knew the difference.  While we didn’t get the fancy shoes and trips that some of our friends had, it was really a life lesson of need versus wants.

People who know her agree with me.  My Mom is a pretty amazing person.  She has more energy than most people my own age!  She bends over backwards to help people whenever she can.  Happy Mother’s Day, Mom!

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5 Ways We’ve Saved Money This Week 73

5 Ways We’ve Saved Money This Week 73

Earlier this week, I took my 3 year old out to run errands.  We decided to try a new park, which was so much fun!  They have a climbing toy in the shape of a train, which my little guy just loved.

When we finally got home after a long day of running errands, I was ready for both of us to have some down time.  But as I unloaded things from the van, I saw him topple head first out of the car and into our gravel driveway.  Instead of relaxing, we spent a few hours in the emergency room.

Luckily, everything turned out just fine!  He was happy to get a popsicle and watch some cartoons, and I was relieved when the doctor said he looked a lot worse than he actually was.

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Love to Travel? Better Get a Vacation Savings Account!

Love to Travel? Better Get a Vacation Savings Account!

Inside:  Planning to travel soon? A vacation savings account is the perfect way to enjoy your trip without the stress of debt. Get a free printable for fun savings!

The first time I ever saw the ocean was on my honeymoon.  After the stress of planning a wedding and dealing with minute details for months, that was the most relaxing vacation I’d ever had.  We enjoyed it so much that we decided then and there that we’d be coming back within 5 years.

Kind of a stretch for two kids in their early 20s with not much in the way of job prospects.  But we made it work!  Five years and two kids later, we were back.

Since then, we’ve tried to take a nice vacation like this every couple of years.  A trip like this is a splurge for sure, especially with a family of seven.  But with some careful savings, we make it work.

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Give Your Kids The Best Things In Life By Telling Them No

Give Your Kids The Best Things In Life By Telling Them No

Inside:  Why you should get over your discomforts and learn to tell your kids no.

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Our 9 year old has decided that he wants–no, needs to own a fidget.  Do you know about fidgets?  They’re the latest craze with kids.  It’s a pretty cool idea, actually.  It’s a small toy that kids can spin and… well, basically fidget with to keep their hands occupied.  Perfect for occupying busy boys.  (Here’s an example.)

My Mom had bought small fidgets for my older two boys, and she offered to get one for him, too.  But he wanted a slightly different model for himself.  Trouble is, he had spent all of his money on a giant Lego set months ago and hadn’t refilled his piggy bank since then.

Part of me wanted to plop down the money for the toy and let him have it.  After all, it’s only a few dollars.  Even in our #yearofno it wouldn’t be much to spend.  And who can turn down a cute face asking for such a small thing?

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5 Ways We’ve Saved Money This Week 72

5 Ways We’ve Saved Money This Week 72

Do you give your kids gifts for Easter?  I’ve heard of some parents that decide to gift an item they were going to have to buy the kids this time of year anyway (like boots or a folding chair for ball games).  Then there are the parents that want to go all out for their kids no matter what we’re celebrating.

I’ve done both.  On baby’s first Easter, he was 4 months old.  But I decided he needed another fun toy to kick at during floor time.  (Really?  What was I thinking??)

These days I recognize the beauty in simplicity.  I like the idea of keeping this holiday focused on Jesus.  So even though some kids need new shoes and I’d like to get the little guy some toys for his sand box, I’m resisting.  Besides, who wants to start the race where you buy something for one kid and then have to even it up for the rest of them?

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How to Develop Self Control: 5 Tips to Get What You Want Most

How to Develop Self Control: 5 Tips to Get What You Want Most

Inside:  You’re so tired of caving to every little temptation. But you don’t know how to develop self control! These 5 tips will change your thinking in no time.

I was sitting in church on Palm Sunday, when the deacon began talking about the Gospel.  On Palm Sunday, the masses were laying out palms for Jesus to walk across.  But by Thursday, they were calling for His death.

It struck me that the human struggle to stay focused on our life purpose is not new.  It’s innate human behavior that we all have to work hard to rise above.

Christians, for instance, have to fight their entire lives to avoid “feels good now” temptations in order to get what they want the most in the after life.  But there are many smaller journeys in life that are a good reflection of that.  Maybe we have been given the gift of practice rounds as we go.  What if we’re missing it?

Think about the last diet you tried.  You decided to start a journey of healthier eating, with your end goal being a number on the scale or the shirt tag.  It probably started great, until you were tempted by your favorite treat.  Or there was a celebration that you needed to take part in (and that always involves delicious food!).

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