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These steps help you learn how to afford being a stay at home mom…and if that’s really what you want the most!

I proudly watched as my Hubby crossed the stage wearing his cap and gown.

It was tough work to put him through college while we both worked full-time jobs and raised our son, but it paid off!

A week after the celebration, I gave birth to our second boy.  As I held him, one thought ran through my head over and over.

I have to figure out how to afford to be a stay at home mom!

But we just weren’t in a position to make it happen yet.  I had to be content with a long summer off from my teaching job with my boys instead.

By the time I was pregnant with our third child, we knew it was time to get serious about making my dream a reality.

I wasn’t good at juggling work and home life.  And that paycheck I was earning was barely covering the costs of my work.

I was due in June, so we had an entire school year to make our preparations.

Today, I’m going to share with you how we made the leap.

How to Be A Stay At Home Mom On One Income

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1. Want It the Most

This sounds silly, but it’s the most important step.  How much do you want to be a stay at home mom?

Is it more important than owning the latest gadgets?  If you refuse to do without cable tv or make other sacrifices, that’s ok.

But it’s important to admit it before you quit your job and go into debt.

Living a champagne lifestyle on a Coke budget doesn’t work.

Some people don’t want to afford it.  Be honest with yourself.  If you don’t really want to be a stay home mom, that’s ok.  If everyone was the same, life would be boring.

2. Get Out of Debt

Next, get completely out of debt.  Imagine the wiggle room you’d have in your budget if you were debt free! 

You’ll probably still have a mortgage and maybe some other bills to pay (if you can afford that on one salary).

Now, getting totally out of debt might be a tall order.

Just remember that the more payments you can eliminate, the better you’ll do on one salary.

Here’s the story of how our family managed to pay off tens of thousands in credit card debt on one salary.

3. Learn How Much Your Job Is Costing You

You probably know that you have to reinvest some of your paycheck back into your job.  But do you know how much?

Expenses like these can cut your income dramatically:

  • Childcare (If you’re expecting your first, you’ll want to price this to help you make your decision.)
  • Transportation:  This includes a whole list of things from gas to parking passes to owning a second vehicle.  Some choose to do without a second car so that Mom can stay home.  Not driving to work will save you a good chunk of change by itself.
  • Food:  I don’t know about you, but when I was a working mom we ate out a lot.  I was too tired to cook most days.  I also bought expensive convenience foods.  Most of this can be cut out in favor of simple meals when you are home.  I’m not promising you won’t be tired!  But being home gives you the ability to throw food in the crock pot anytime during the day.
  • Clothing:  You might need to buy a uniform, nice work clothes, or specific materials that help you with your job.  The good news is that the stay at home mom uniform is whatever you want it to be!
  • Dues/Fees:  If you plan to go back to work at some point, you’ll want to do your best to keep up with certificates and licenses to make that an easy transition.  But you may find that you can eliminate dues or fees to certain organizations and groups while you are staying home.

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4.  Try Living On One Income

Once you decide to make that dream of staying home a reality, whatever paychecks you bring home should automatically become “extra money”.

(Might as well get used to living on one salary ASAP, right?)

If you have no debt, put that money into savings.  You’ll want a cash cushion before you put in your notice.

5.  Embrace Frugality

You’ve worked it out and have a plan for staying home.  Great!

But if you want to continue to stay home (rather than scrambling to find another job to keep up your lifestyle) you’ll need to embrace frugality.

The word frugal has taken on a negative feeling, but it really shouldn’t be that way.

To me, being frugal isn’t about cutting corners and being cheap.  I’d define it as being extremely intentional with your money.

For instance, frugal people save up to buy a quality item rather than grabbing the cheapest one (and then having to buy it again a few months later when it breaks).

Get tons of frugal living tips here.

6.  Consider Work At Home Jobs

If you do your calculations and find that you’re still coming up a little short, try to make up the difference with a work at home job.

Don’t fool yourself into thinking you’ll be able to get a lot of work done while you’re home with the kids.

That magical nap time isn’t a guarantee.

Rather, look at your schedule and see if there’s a time that your partner can watch the kids while you work.

The beauty of most work at home jobs is that they’re flexible.  You can work whenever you can fit it into your schedule.  But you do have to be able to get it done!  So be realistic.

Before I decided I liked blogging more, I did general transcription for a while. It felt good to pay for the groceries with my pay! 

Try this free ebook to see if it’s something you might be good at. 

Follow these steps and you’ll see just how to afford being a stay at home mom.

Our third baby was born in late June.

And, because we followed this plan, I was able to give my notice just a few days later.

I’ve been a stay at home mom for ten years now, and I’ve never regretted it.  If you share this dream, I encourage you to give it all you’ve got!

Looking for ways to save more money?

Are you a stay home mom, or do you want to be?  What have you done to make that dream come true?

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