Frugal living sounds like a boring life. But the truth is, you’ll never be happier than when you embrace the frugal lifestyle.
I pulled into the fast food line, careful to choose my favorite lane. The left side always ran faster than the right for some reason.
Granted, it was a little embarrassing that I did this so often that my 2 year old would point at the golden arches and yell “Dr. Pepper!”
On this day, though, my mind began to wander as I sat and waited for my pop. (Yes, around here it’s a pop. The thought of calling it a “soft drink” makes me cringe!)
Why was I here?
Had I stopped because I was thirsty?
Because I needed a pick me up after getting up with a toddler overnight and then running errands all day?
Or was it out of nothing more than habit?
Was this one dollar “treat” really even a treat anymore?
Berries are so yummy. Whenever I find a good deal at the store, or my berry bushes go crazy producing, I love to put extra bags in the freezer.
Unfortunately, sometimes I forget that I put those bags in the freezer.
But no worries. I know I can always take them out and create this delicious Tripble Berry Cobbler in no time flat.
This recipe is so forgiving, you can combine any berries you have on hand.
Recipes have to be affordable, flexible, and something my family is willing to eat (so it doesn’t go to waste), or else why bother?
By the way, if you don’t have 3 kinds of berries, you can make this with any combination. One berry, 3 berries, or a hodge podge of bags of berries that you can’t even remember what they are anymore. 😉
Just cook up the berries and pour in the pan.
Then mix together the doughy topping.
Then dollop the dough onto the berries. (Don’t worry about what it looks like, since it will meld into a crust anyway.)
Being a SAHM isn’t for the weak! But with this stay at home mom schedule, you’ll have fewer of those runaway horse moments and more time to actually think.
A while ago, I told a friend that every day I feel like I am waking up on a horse that is already off and running. And no matter how hard I try, I can’t seem to grasp the reigns.
Waking up to chaos every morning is no way to live. When you have an infant or toddler who doesn’t sleep well, living life any other way seems impossible!
But there’s hope. Even a few small changes in your stay at home mom schedule can make a big difference. Let’s talk about some tweaks you can make that will help you have better days.
Today another one of our babies begins kindergarten. You would think by the fourth child it would be easier, but nope! I’ve definitely been far more nervous than my independent little “only girl”. (She’s been begging me to go to school since she could talk!)
I remember walking my first born into kindergarten at a new, scary (to me) school while rather pregnant with this little girl and thinking about how many more first days we had to come.
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I eagerly checked the weather from our local news station, looking for any possibility of a snow day.
It’s not so much that I enjoy snow (I don’t).
But a snow day means a couple of things.
No alarm clock. (Hallelujah!)
No worry about whether all the kids have the right clothes clean for picture day, or gym day, or red and gray day. (Yahoo!)
But, best of all…
no lunches to pack.
Ugh! Packing lunches is the worst.
First, you have to make sure you have everything on hand.
Then you spend an hour trying to make sure this kid gets their daily PB&J made just so without the crusts, while that kid gets anything at all but a sandwich.
There’s a headache for ya.
Still, some days there are enough battles to fight. Amirite?
But you know another parenting technique I’m a fan of? Teaching the kids to do things themselves.
Mama, I promise. If your child can throw packages into the grocery cart when you aren’t looking, they can toss together a lunch, too.
(pssst…There’s a free printable at the end of this post to make that shopping go easier, too!)
Now, here’s the method I’ve used to make easy lunch packing happen in our home.
Simple School Lunch Ideas
Get the Kids Involved
If the kids are eating, they should be involved in the packing.
That’s right! Our kids start packing their own lunches in kindergarten.
But that doesn’t mean the same thing for our 5-year-old as it does for the 11-year-old.
We’ll teach our five-year-old daughter to pack her own lunch this year. By the end of the year, she’ll know how to make a sandwich.
She’ll also know how to choose options from the other food groups to complete her meal.
Now that the older kids have years of practice under their belts, they don’t need much help anymore. My job is to have the groceries around here to simplify their packing.
Remember, parents, that we’re trying to work ourselves out of a job!
Simplify the Choices
A lunch in our home consists of a main course such as a sandwich, salad, leftovers, or things from the list further on in this post.
Then they choose a fruit, a dairy, a junk food (or treat), and a drink.
There’s no reason for them to eat a fancy 4 course meal. Besides, they spend a lot of their lunch period socializing with friends.
How much food do you think they throw away each day? Don’t add to the waste.
Even though we have a couple of events (a date night and a wedding) coming up that mean I don’t necessarily need a full 14 days worth of meals, I plan for them anyway.
We’ve missed out on events due to unforeseen circumstances plenty of times before, so I like to be prepared.
We also bought a whole hog and had it processed for the freezer. This will be ready to pick up soon.
We are looking forward to that delicious pork!
*Check back for recipes for some of these meals. If there is one you’d like to see a recipe for specifically, please let me know!
brinner (breakfast for dinner in case you aren’t a Scrubs fan)
Supper sides will be potatoes either cut into fries or cubed and seasoned, seasoned noodles, or seasoned rice along with fresh veggies and some artisan bread.
“If my kids ask me for a new app for their Kindle Fires one more time, I’m going to blow a gasket! They just got one yesterday and they don’t even appreciate it.” -me
Then two minutes later I find myself staring longingly at a beautiful Pinterest kitchen.
A bit of a paradox, huh? The struggle is real.
Humans have wrestled with discontentment for decades (centuries? millennia?). But with the internet shrinking the world into the palm of your hand, it makes the struggle of fighting discontentment that much harder for all of us.
So here are four tips for helping yourself out of a discontentment rut.
Ideas For Moms Looking For More Contentment
1. Be grateful
When I catch myself slipping into discontent, I try to remember how much I already have to be grateful for.
Those kids sometimes make me want to blow a gasket…but I have a beautiful family in pretty good health.
We live in a wonderful neighborhood with great friends and family close by.
I could easily come up with a long list of things to be grateful for. Your list is probably pretty similar.
As a bonus, list these things out together as a family. Challenge each person to come up with one or two things to be thankful for each day.
2. Get Unbored
Sometimes the reason we are not content is because we are just bored. We have too much free time and we imagine that if we only had what she has our life would be so different! Discontentment is often a craving for the rush of enjoying something new and different.
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But we don’t have to buy the latest app for our tablets or have the perfect sofa to get that rush. Look up ways to upcycle items you already have. Challenge yourself to learn something new via Youtube or by getting books from your local library. Instead of zapping a frozen meal, try to figure out how your ancestors would have prepared their food.
3. Distraction
Sometimes when I feel discontented, I try to reconnect with a hobby I used to love but no longer do much anymore (like playing my flute!). Or I try to work on a project that will give me a sense of satisfaction.
Even cleaning and reorganizing a room that has been making you crazy for a while can give you a great sense of accomplishment. It’s usually enough to keep my mind off of the desire for something new.
4. Recognize Hedonic Adaptation
I first learned about this on the Mr. Money Mustache blog (fair warning, he does use strong language!). Hedonic adaptation is the tendency for us to quickly adapt to new things and come to expect them rather than appreciate them.
Take cars, for example. Imagine how excited the first people were to own and use a car. Suddenly that trip that took hours before was now cut in half.
Now imagine yourself today (assuming you drive a car). When you climb in your car, do you really appreciate the fact that you are using this fascinating machine that is going to transport you from your home to your destination in a fairly short time? Like me, you are probably so busy wondering if you remembered everything that you don’t appreciate it at all.
You can try to appreciate things more by removing some of the comfort from your life, so that when you reintroduce it you appreciate it more.
Rather than driving your car, take a bike ride.
Turn off your air conditioning or heat for a while. (Or adjust the temperature so it’s not perfectly comfortable.)
The Best Tips for Buying Meat in Bulk to Save Money
Tons of tips for buying meat in bulk that work for nearly any budget! Save money on the ever rising cost of groceries.
When you’re trying to save money, the first place in the budget that most people attack is food. That’s because you have more control over that area, and you can see immediate results.
There are so many different ways to save money at the grocery store. But have you ever considered feeding your family without doing traditional grocery shopping?
Let’s talk about some creative ways to save on meat.
Tips for Buying Meat In Bulk At the Grocery Store
Go meatless (or less meat)
One great way to save money is to have meatless meals. No, this idea isn’t going to work for everyone. You might have picky eaters, football players who need to bulk up, or spouses that aren’t interested in the idea.
It took a while to convince my own family to go meatless just once per week. But once they realized that you can have some great tasting meals even without it, they were in.
If you need some ideas to help you get your family on board with the idea of having meatless (or less meat) meals every once in a while, check out this post for tips.
Saving on meat
Stock up on food when it’s at its best price. If your freezer is empty, buy the cheapest cuts of meat for a month and try to round out your meals with beans as much as possible.
Instead of boneless skinless chicken breasts, buy whole chickens. Rather than the best burger, get something with a higher fat content and rinse the fat from it after cooking. (You can return it to the heat after rinsing to keep it tasting great.) Or buy a cheaper cut of beef and grind your own burger at home.
You can make those cheaper cuts of meat more edible by marinating them over night before grilling or cooking them. A crock pot will often make even tougher cuts fall apart.
Then, stock up on better cuts of meat as they hit their best sale prices. I don’t like to pay more than $2 per pound for meat. That’s tough to find, but it’s doable if you shop carefully.
You might find that your best price is double or triple my cost. Once you learn what your best price point will be, you can become a better shopper.
Are you willing to be a little more adventurous? Try thinking outside the box (store) and consider these alternatives
Zaycon Fresh
I’m still sad that Zaycon has gone out of business. I’ll let you know when I find a good alternative!
Meat Packing Plants
If you want the deliciousness of a farm raised animal but don’t want to actually do the raising part, you can try a meat packing plant. Do a search to find one in your area.
You may find that it’s a drive of an hour or more to get to the plant, but the savings on buying your meat in bulk will make the trip worthwhile. And when you purchase in bulk, it’s not a trip you’ll have to make often.
The trouble with buying this way is that there is a large up front cost. If you can find the initial money for half a hog, steer, lamb, goat, or other animal, then you can start saving up the monthly grocery money you would have spent on that meat for the next large purchase.
If you can’t swing the price on your own, ask around to see if a friend or family member is interested in sharing the cost with you to make it more affordable.
Some meat packers sell in smaller portions. It’s worth a call to get information, even if you aren’t ready to order yet.
Farmers
Similar to calling a meat packing plant, you can also call a farmer directly and order meat from them. Not all farmers are online since they are busy in the fields rather than at a desk all day. So be sure to look them up via white or yellow pages if Google doesn’t help.
Do It Yourself Types
Are you the type who doesn’t mind getting your hands dirty? These tips might be for you!
Raise Your Own
If the thought of raising your own meat upsets you, you may want to skip this section.
Many people have enough space to raise their own backyard chickens or rabbits. Both are an excellent source of homegrown meat that can feed your family for an affordable price.
You can call your county extension office for information on how to get started, or look for 4-H kids selling animals. Kids in 4-H are not only a great source for getting animals, but also a wealth of information for beginners. Most 4-H kids have worked very hard with their animals and are proud to tell you all about how to care for them.
Rabbits would be simpler and less noisy than chickens to care for. It’s cliché, but rabbit meat really does taste like white chicken meat. You can get a male and female for a very reasonable price and raise litters a few times per year.
Knowing where your food is coming from gives a great feeling of accomplishment. Plus you’ll have peace of mind when there are so many recalls from the grocery stores these days.
Hunting
Also not for the faint of heart, hunting can be a great source of food. You will want to learn the laws in your state and local area.
Sometimes the tag price for hunting an animal makes it uneconomical. But often you can hunt for deer (for instance) at an affordable price and fill your freezer.
For even more savings, learn how to butcher your own animal.
Choose the method that works best for you, and you’ll find that saving on meat becomes easier the more you do it.
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